Does The Church Still Need Youth Pastors?

Student Pastors today have pretty much become their own breed of pastor.  They are hip and cool.  Most of them come equipped with a goatee, hip hairdo, cool man bag, iphone, ipad, some type of Biblical tattoo in Hebrew or Greek, and a guitar.  I am not making fun (well sort of) because I was a youth pastor for 8 years.  My high school youth pastor made a big difference in my life, but as I have thought about it, I think student ministry has become something that has gotten away from the Biblical model.   Here are a few dangers I think student ministers should watch out for:

Student Ministry Should Not Create A Separate Church

It seems that most things that happen in church life today separate the family instead of bringing them together.  We come to church and we all go to our different divisions and we will see each other around lunchtime.  The Bible is clear that worship is a family thing, so why do we work so hard to split families up?  I think much of the church planting movement in America today is birthed out of a generation that wants their church to be their student ministry.  People my age who grew up in student ministry with a band and a “relevant” teacher now refuse to worship with “old” people that sing the “awful Hymns.”  Are we reaching the lost or simply dividing the church more by creating churches of student ministries that have grown up?  My generation has so much to learn from the previous generation.  We need to be careful not to lose the Godly heritage that came before us.


Student Pastors Are Not Paid Entertainers

So many youth pastors keep a full calendar with bowling, movies, 5th quarters, amusement parks, and a host of other activities. Most of these activities have little significance.  We always filed them under the “fellowship” banner.   You are there to help students know Jesus Christ and become more like Him.  There is a great pressure in student ministry to be a glorified babysitter to teenagers.  Don’t be that guy.

What Should Student Pastors Do?

Model the Way

If you want your students to go to the next level in their faith then you need to already be at the level you want them to attain.  Never expect them to witness more than you do.  Never expect them to have a better quiet time then you do.  As a leader it implies that you are out in front of them and are giving them an example to follow.  Never expect what you are not first willing to do.

Empower the Parents

My first few years of student ministry I saw parents as kind of a hindrance to “my” ministry.  I mean they did not know kids like I knew them and they threw cold water on so many of my “brilliant ideas” (like putting bananas in a toilet and blind folding kids and making them fish them out).  The specific position of “Youth Minister” cannot be found in the pages of the Bible.  I am not saying there is not a need for them, but I am saying the scripture is clear that God has put the responsibility of the next generation of faith primarily on the shoulders of the parents.  (See Deuteronomy 6).  The more you can get parents involved and get them to teach their teenagers the better.  As a youth pastor, I spent a lot of time investing in a lot of kids.  As I look back at all the students that I invested in there is a common theme.   The kids who had Godly parents are still walking with Jesus.  The kids who did not have Godly parents for the most part are living for themselves.

Give Students Big Bold Challenges

I find that this generation is under challenged.  Challenge them with changing the world with the gospel and giving their lives for the gospel.  This is a radical generation that wants something real and is willing to give their lives’ for it.  When you give them the challenge to change the world give them some practical ways to do it in their school and their neighborhoods.  If you expect little you will get little.  I believe that this generation is hungry to do something big.  Don’t sell them short with messages about having a positive self-image and recycling.  Tell them about tribes that have yet to hear the message of Jesus and are hell bound unless someone goes to tell them. Ask them to be the person who reaches them.

Teach Them The Bible

While most of this generation is hungry for something real they are also very emotional.  They have little Biblical and theological depth.  They need to learn the word of God.  It is the only thing that can truly change their lives and give them hope.  Don’t give them an hour-long worship service with smoke, lights, and a “killer band” with a 15-minute devotion.  Give them the word of God.  Teach them how to study the scripture on their own and help them learn how to apply it to their daily lives.  Take them through books of the Bible and show how the entire Bible points to the Gospel and to Jesus.

Don’t Be Afraid To Get Up In Their Business

As a youth leader you need to love the students and have a strong relationship with them.  You need to know them well enough where you can talk to them about issues in their lives they are having.  Remember what they tell you.  Ask them about their tests, games, relationships, etc.  You cannot do ministry from afar.  I was always “up in my students business.”  Sometimes they did not like how honest I was with them about everything from relationships to attitudes.  But, for the most part those students later appreciated my honesty.  Sometimes loving your kids will mean you have to tell them a harsh truth about themselves or their actions that they do not want to hear.  This will make you unpopular for the moment.  Which leads to my next point:

You Are Called To Be Their Pastor, Not Their BFF

Never forget you are there to help them grow as people and sometimes that will require being their leader and not their friend.  Many youth pastors and leaders make the mistake of giving the youth the impression that they are best friends to the students. Student ministry is not about being a cool older guy that teaches teenagers.  (This is actually quite pathetic if you think about it.  It is like the 30 year old that is still trying to live out his youth at high school field parties.)  Your relationship to students needs to be closer to a parent/child than friend/friend.  You are there to guide them and not just be a shoulder to cry on.  If they do not respect you as a leader they will not listen to what you have to tell them.



Whether Hillary Or Donald, I Am Not Moving To Canada

Canada is cold and they talk funny…eh.

As the election year has drawn on and seems to never end most of the American public is growing very weary. This has proved to be an election of the lesser of two evils. I don’t think either party is particularly proud of their candidate. But here we are with the choice between a colonoscopy and a root canal.

Elections matter but in God’s great cosmic plan they don’t matter as much as most people think.

I vote to end abortion. I vote because I love the foundation of the country in which I was raised.   But this election has been clearer than any election to show Christian people in America that our hope is not in our country and our hope is certainly not in our politicians.

The worst thing that has come out of this election is not the scandals that plague the Clinton camp or the indiscretions of a billionaire.   I don’t think that any of the scandals that have come out have truly surprised anyone. I think both sides manufacture surprise in order to hate their opponent and get more votes. No, I think the worst thing that has come out (or perhaps the best thing that has come out) is a revelation of the soul of the Evangelical church in America.

I have felt very let down by some of my faith heroes. I have seen many men that I have looked up to and read their books quickly throw their support behind a man that embodies much of the “Spirit of the World.” I understand that we are not electing a pastor or a Sunday School teacher, but it is the hypocrisy that has hurt the most. For years the church has claimed that morality matters. We have stood against immorality.   It seems that so many leaders had already jumped on the Trump train that they are now riding it over the cliff. To be real honest I despise what Hillary Clinton stands for. She promotes evil at its very core. For a candidate to say in a debate that she will appoint Supreme Court Justices that will uphold abortion and the marriage of same sex couples is troubling to me. To murder children and dismantle the foundation of home life will continue the moral decline our country is in.

While I may agree with more of Donald Trump’s policy positions I will not try to defend his indefensible behavior. He is full of himself and is a man that, no matter how you cut it, has a problem with how he treats women. They seem to be more like property to him than people. Women are just another commodity that he can buy and sell.

So what? What are Christian to do?

I would not tell you who to vote for. I hope you pray through that and God leads you to the right decision.   I think there are some lessons God’s church must learn from this election.

It Is Not In Likeness With Christ To Desire To See That Other Side Suffer — I have seen so much hatred come out of Christian people over this election.   People want Hillary to “get what she deserves” or they want Donald to be “taken out.”   These attitudes are nowhere to be found in the words of Christ.   Jesus taught us to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us. Romans 12 tells us to bless and do not curse those who persecute you.   The Bible also tells us not to repay evil with evil but evil with good.   We never win over opposition by continuing to shout back at people that disagree with us. American Christians seem to be looking for a fight. They want someone to lose.   Jesus told us that we are to lay down our lives for others. That was the model He chose. He changed the world not by the sword but by His death.

You Can Disagree With Someone And Still Be Their Friend — So many people get hatred in their heart for others when they find out they are supporting a candidate that is different than their own.   It’s OK.   You can disagree with people and not get mad. So you don’t understand how someone can have a view different than your own. You can still be kind to them. There is never a good reason for a Christian to be unkind.

The Sun Will Rise The Morning After — It may make you sick to have to say President _____________________ is now in office.   I can pretty much assure you that the sun will still rise. Your spouse will still love you. Your children will still need you. Just because the Country may be going to hell does not mean that you have to.   If the good Ole USA gets further away from Jesus as a Nation it doesn’t require you to get further away from Him as a person. In fact, I would argue just the opposite.   When we are squeezed what is in us comes out. If we are Christ followers the aroma of Christ will come out as times get harder and the culture in general goes farther away from the teachings of Jesus. It may be harder to be a Christian but throughout history the church has always grown and flourished in times of persecution.   So the day after the election I recommend you get up, read your bible, pray, kiss your spouse, hug your babies and love your neighbor. No matter what happens on the outside, NO ONE can change Christ in you.

When Something Is Evil Call It Evil — What a depressing day when Christians try to defend that which God will not defend.   Better yet, when we try to defend that which God calls us to speak out against. Objectifying and groping women is wrong.   Lying and committing treason is wrong.   Killing babies is wrong.   Just say it and don’t try to act like because your candidate did it that somehow makes it ok.

When a new day was coming in Israel God told Joshua to not be afraid. He was not to be afraid because God was with him. In Psalm 56:11 the Psalmist says, “In God I trust; I shall not be afraid. What can man do to me?”

2 Timothy 1:7 “For God has not given us a spirit of fear but of power and love and self control.”

Christian you need not fear the future because this election is in the hands of God.   He is the one that allows politicians to rise and fall.  He did not put the USA in His Bible. There will be a time our nation will fall. I hope it is not soon, but I trust the Lord that as for me and my house we will serve the Lord. We may lose everything but no one can take the greatest treasure, because He is in us.



Feel The Beat Of The Rhythm Of The…Family

A few times a year our church dedicates babies to the Lord and as a pastor at our church this gives me the opportunity to meet with every family one on one to talk about their spiritual lives.   One question I ask is, “What is the biggest obstacle to the spiritual growth of your marriage and family?” I have found that in almost every young family the answer is the same.   It’s not infidelity. It’s not abuse. It’s not anger issues.

The biggest struggle most young families have is being too busy!

Almost every young mom and dad are really struggling to balance their work life and their home life. They want to be a good spouse and good parent but they feel like they are pulled in every direction.   They are doing so much and yet they feel like they are failing at everything.

I can sure relate to this struggle. Juggling a marriage, busy career, and 4 small children is no easy task. My wife and I both feel overwhelmed on a daily basis.

“How can a family that is struggling to survive raise children that thrive spiritually and emotionally?”

I am not claiming that I have figured this out. I am still in the process of raising young children and identify with the struggle.   I want to offer some insight that I have found to be helpful.

Your life needs a rhythm.

Your family needs a rhythm.

Rhythm in music is beats in a pattern.   Rhythm in your home is life in a pattern.

Perhaps one of the greatest scriptures on parenting is in Deuteronomy

6:5 “And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your strength. 6 And you must commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these commands that I am giving you today. 7 Repeat them again and again to your children. Talk about them when you are at home and when you are on the road, when you are going to bed and when you are getting up. 8 Tie them to your hands and wear them on your forehead as reminders. 9 Write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.”

I love this scripture because it gives the repetitive nature of family life.   The author says we are to repeat it again and again.

It is in the repetition of parenting that we shape our children. It is in these daily and weekly life rhythms that the character of our children is being formed.

Even our best days as parents are filled with guilt and shame. We feel like we should have been more patient, kind, helpful, caring, understanding, calm…and the list goes on.   The guilt can eat at our souls and if we let it, can undermine our future parenting.

I want to encourage you as in Deuteronomy 6 to build family rhythms into your home. Make the mundane of your daily life a weekly song that your children learn to thrive in.

I fail daily but here are a few rhythms in our home.

Daily Car Ride To School – It would be easier for me to put them on the bus. It would cause me less stress in the mornings but I choose to wait in carline and drop them off.   Why? Well a few reasons. 1) I rode the bus to school and was informed about sex at age 7 by a much older boy (It was misinformation). I want to keep my children from these type experiences.   2) I don’t get much time with them each day. This gives me focused time that they are in close proximity.   3) Every day we quote scripture and pray for one another as they leave the car. We also listen to loud music and dance. Sometimes we cry as well (because someone is pulling hair, touch someone else, forgot their homework, etc…)

Taco Tuesday – Tuesdays can be mundane.   Tacos fix that!   I think this is more for me than the kids

Wednesday Night Is Church Night – Our kids know that every Wednesday they will go to church. They love it and can’t wait to go

Homework And Rooms Clean Before We Play Outside – Every weekday (except Friday) my children know that before they can play outside or do anything fun they have to do their homework and clean their rooms. This is a clear rule and helps them know that play is important but it comes after work.

Dinner As A Family 3-4 Times A Week – I love dinner table time. We always ask our kids questions that force them to answer with more than one word. We also try to ask questions that help them see how good God was to them that day.

Fun Friday – I think Friday is their favorite day. If they get good marks in school for behavior all week then when we pick them up from school they get to go to the Dollar Tree and pick out ANY one thing they want. It costs us a whopping $4 a week but the kids can’t wait for this trip. We also usually eat something unhealthy and watch a family movie on Fridays.

Worship On Sunday – Since I work as a pastor at a church my kids spend a lot of time at the church building.   We are always excited to go to church and the kids love Sunday’s

Bedtime Prayers – Every night we tuck the kids in and pray with them. This might be the most important time of the day. My older girls will refuse to go to bed until I pray with them. No matter how tired I am, this happens every night

Family Walks – I need exercise and the kids need to be outside.   My three older kids are now all riding their bikes so this provides a great opportunity to be in nature and talk with the kids.

Individual Time – If you have more than one child you must build into your family rhythms one on one time.   I let one child every week sit in my office with me for a couple of hours. I would think this is boring as I require them to be quiet. I let them play a game on my ipad and they just love coming to the church office and hanging with dad.   It doesn’t hurt that we always have some leftover goodies from a church event in the office.

I don’t know what beats your family plays but I do know it is the rhythms of family life that will shape your children. I encourage you to make a beautiful song.img_5595

On Being Blessed

I love it when people bless me!

I love it when the person in front of me in line pays for my coffee. I love it when the waitress comes to our table when it is time to pay the bill and says that someone already took care of our bill. I love it when someone tells me they appreciated something I said or wrote. Whether it is in word, action, or thought, it is so encouraging to be blessed.

Truth is we all enjoy being blessed. We all want something good to happen to us. We want to be encouraged, thought about, praised and respected. We want a smile to come across our faces and a warm and fuzzy feeling to be in our hearts.

Today, I want to tell you a way you can find a great blessing from a place you may never look.   The blessing I am talking about is the blessing of meeting someone with special needs. If you do not have a family member or friend with special needs then you probably feel really uncomfortable when you see someone that is handicapped or has an obvious external difference than you. Maybe you see someone with Down syndrome and you really don’t know how to act or respond so you just look away.   We are all naturally fearful of the unknown.   But, I WANT YOU TO BE BLESSED!.   I want to challenge you to push past your natural discomfort and feelings of anxiety and go and talk to the person with special needs.

Last week at lunch I met a man with Down syndrome as my family was waiting in line for our food. Here is what happened:

“At lunch today, after church, I met a man named Matt. Matt was so friendly. He complemented my family. He had a great big smile and he asked me if my Daughter, Joy, had Down Syndrome. He was so excited to meet Joy. I invited Matt to sit at the table with my family and eat his lunch with us. Matt has a niece that is Joy’s age that he dearly loves. He has written a book, volunteers at the Public Library and worked for 11 years at Kroger. Matt recently lost 70 pounds and is planning on hiking the Appalachian Trial. His joy and passion for life were contagious. I hope to meet with him again.

Matt happened to have Down syndrome as well. He is 41 years old. I was once again reminded what a gift God has given this world by making some people a little different.”

I have been thinking about this encounter all week. My natural response was to just say hello to Matt and be on my merry way.   I took a little extra step and tried to get to know Matt and it changed my day.

I posted about my encounter with Matt on Facebook and it encouraged one of my friends to have a conversation with someone in her town that has Down syndrome.

Here is what she said, “It was great to read about Matt.  I, too, met someone with Down syndrome.  My husband and I were at Pizza Hunt and I saw a friend and his daughter Grace across the dining room. Grace has Down syndrome.  When I finished lunch I went over to speak to them.  I, as many others, hesitated to go over, thinking what would I say or even how would I react to Grace.  Boy, was I in for a surprise.  Grace was so open, so sweet, so out going, so well adjusted.  I had seen her picture in the paper sometime back where she was chosen homecoming queen at her school.  I started the conversation and one thing led to another.  I think we could have visited all afternoon.  She was excited about cheerleading this year.  She is going to be on the varsity team.  Grace loves her daddy very much and her daddy certainly returns that love. She said she was a “hugger” and loved hugs from her daddy.  As they were checking out, Grace came over to our table and gave me a hug and told me good-bye.  If only we all could be as happy and loving as Grace is.”

People with special needs are extraordinary people! Most of them have faced and overcome challenges that “typical” people will never face.   They are full of life and have the spirit of over-comers.   They don’t quit and most people I meet with special needs have great attitudes and outlooks on life.

You could be so blessed today if you would take the time to get to know the person with special needs. Don’t look away; instead make eye contact and smile. If you think it’s appropriate go and meet the precious soul that God put in your path. Just walk across the room.

People with special needs want what all of us want. They want genuine friendships. They want to be loved and accepted for who they are. They want to make a difference in the lives of others.

Want to be blessed today?

IMG_4588Take the challenge to get to know someone with special abilities today!

“Is She A Down Syndrome?”

Recently, my wife and I packed up the family for an afternoon of hiking and exploring in Helen, Ga. We could not have asked for a better day. The kids loved the hike, the weather was perfect and memories were made.   After our hike we had dinner in Helen and we walked around the quaint little mountain tourist town.

My children are Ty (8), Karis (5), Katie (5), and Joy (22 months).   Joy has Down Syndrome(DS).   To be real honest this last detail about Joy is mostly irrelevant in our family.

To us she is just Joy.

She is a great blessing to all of us and rarely does her genetic condition affect us. This is so true that most of the time I forget she even has DS.

On our trip I had forgotten…

I walked with my older children, held my wife’s hand, and pushed little Joy in her stroller.   As we ate ice cream and waited to get our balloon animals, a well meaning young lady looks at Joy and smiles and says to Charyl, “Aw, Is she a Down Syndrome?’’

It doesn’t take long to come back to the stinging reality that our little girl is different and when other people see her they notice Down syndrome and not Joy.

As we walked back to the car that afternoon I had some big old crocodile tears well up in my eyes. As a parent nothing hurts more than when you feel like others do not see the value in your children in the same way you do.

While the conversation was innocent and the young lady was kind, I could not help but feel pierced in the heart by her words, “Is she a Down syndrome?” To a person who does not have a child with special needs this question may seem completely innocent and appropriate but somewhere in the last 22 months I have become one of those overly sensitive parents. Please forgive me. This is not like me.   I am not a particularly emotional or sensitive man.   I rarely cry, in fact I see this as a flaw in my character that I do not feel things as deeply as others, but I have become very sensitive about Joy.   I almost cry as I type this…because I can’t help but desire for people to see Joy as I see Joy. I want them to see HER and not her “Syndrome.” I want others to value her as I value her!

So, NO! She is not “A Down Syndrome.”

She is JOY!

She is made and crafted in the image of God.

She is valuable.

She is beautiful.

She loves to follow her sisters.

She loves to give hugs.

She has a smile that lights up the world.

She has siblings that can’t wait to get home from school to play with her.

She claps and cheers for everyone.

She wakes up happy.

She likes to help her daddy cook.

She is very opinioned and will not eat her carrots no matter how you try to sneak them in.

She is resilient.

She brings hope.

She is her mama’s heart!

She is her daddy’s heart!

Every life God creates carries the stamp of divinity. If we will take the time to get to know people we will be shocked by the beauty we can find in each soul.

I did not ask for, nor did a want to have a child with Down syndrome.   It will always hurt my soul that Joy will struggle with simple things that typical children take for granted.

In spite of my desires God knew better than I did.

I am so thankful that God knows what is best for me when I don’t know how to ask. I am so thankful He brought JOY into my home.

God’ s greatest gifts are often disguised as presents we think we don’t want or don’t need.

When you see a family that has a child with special needs, if you desire to interact with them, ask the person’s name.   Every person is more than their disability.   Say an encouraging word. The family probably needs to hear it.   Find something good you see in the person with disabilities and complement their ability.   It may be as simple as saying, “You have a beautiful smile.” It may mean the world to that family. Be kind and considerate.


7 Simple Steps That Will Help You Develop Your Team

In order to multiply the influence God has given you the most important area you can focus on is developing leaders around you.   Here are 7 simple thoughts on how you can do that effectively.

1) Identify Who You Need To Develop

Time is short. All of us are limited in the amount of time we have to invest in others. Your life stage, job and other circumstances will determine just how much time you have to give.   You must set realistic expectations on yourself when it comes to the amount of time you can pour into others.

You cannot develop everyone.

Most of us try to work with too many people at once. I love people and I have many friends and a long list of people in whom I would love to invest my time and energy. However, if I give all the people I want to invest in a little bit of my time then I am really helping no one. In order to have the greatest impact make a short list of those people that you have the greatest ability to impact.

Spend your most focused time on your most valuable leaders.

I read somewhere that you become like the 5 people closest to you. I am sure there is some great truth in that statement.   To begin developing leaders make a short list.   Take a few minutes and see if you can get a list down to 10 or fewer people whom you need to be investing in.   Here are some questions that will help you make your list.

Who MUST I invest in?   At the top of your list should be your family. There are many who can replace you at work or in the church setting but to your wife and children you are irreplaceable.

Who must I develop at work or in my ministry?

Who is teachable? Do not waste time on people who do not want your investment.

Who is available? There may be some top-level leaders who you may want to have on your team and invest in but they are maxed out and therefore unavalible.

Do they need my help? Don’t try to develop people that should be developing you. Learn from them.

2) Be Someone That Other People Can Follow

It a glorious waste of time for you to try to lead in a direction where you have not yet gone or are not pushing yourself to go. No one wants to follow someone else who is a hypocrite or someone who does not practice what he or she preaches. The best teachers model the behavior that they desire to see in others. First live it then lead it.


3) Spend Time With The People You Wish To Develop

 Helping in the development of another leader is not something that will happen overnight. You cannot simply take your leaders to a good conference on leadership and expect them to be different people. Conferences are great for getting new ideas and for motivating people but usually do not create long-term change. Helping someone else become all that God has called him or her to be will take your most precious asset, your time. Those that you desire to develop must be people that you spend time with every week. If you are not having success in helping others grow it may be that you are not giving them enough of yourself. How much time are you spending with the people you are trying to help? You can plant a great garden but if you do not give it attention then weeds will choke it out and bugs will eat the fruit.   The same is true when investing in other.   Time and attention are required to maintain health.

4) Listen…And Then Listen Some More

You cannot develop someone until you know him or her. In order to help someone you must find out where they are?

What are the things that are keeping him or her from being a better leader?

What are the areas of their life that need development?

To help people you must hear them, really hear them.  You can never learn anything new when you are talking.  You need to find out what they are most passionate about.

How are they gifted?

Where are they weak?

Where do they want to go?

What do they want to accomplish?

Seek first to understand before you seek to be understood. You will never lead someone where they do not want to go. You may drag them but you will not lead them. The idea is not to get someone to go where you want them to go but to help them become who God wants them to become as a leader. Don’t make the focus about your objectives but about their development.

5) Help Them Come Up With Clear Goals

If you do not know where you are going you will have a hard time every getting there.   Help the person you are developing establish what the end result is. In my line of work we talk about helping others establish a “win.”   A win is a clear standard of measure that helps everyone know if they are being successful or not.   You can call them goals, wins, or whatever you want but you must define them. Over the last few years I have found that in most cases it is better to establish wins in the area of what we can control and not what we cannot control.   We measure in the sowing and not the reaping.   Help others define clear measures of victory in what they can control.

6) Give Them One Step

I think as leaders we often overwhelm people with 27 things that they must do to be a success.   Start with one step. Give the person you are developing one clear action step to take and then meet with them and hold them accountable to that step.   Keep going back to step one until it is completed. Tell them how to do it. Show them how to do it. Watch them while they do it.

7) Hold Them Accountable

The older I get the more important I believe accountability is. We all perform better when someone is watching us and someone is following up with our progress. You will never develop leaders past what you are willing to hold them accountable for. I know many great speakers that can tell people what they need to do but never truly develop them because they do not follow up. The fortune is in the follow up.   John Maxwell says that you cannot expect what you don’t inspect.

Have you taken time to follow up with leaders you are developing with accountability?

The lid on your leadership may be your lack of follow up.

“A Person’s a Person No Matter How Small”

“A person’s a person no matter how small.”   This is the line that kept reverberating in my brain this morning as I read a number of gag worthy news articles about the murder, dismemberment, and sales of aborted babies.   You can watch the footage here if you can stomach it

I was trying to think of where the quote came from and it finally dawned on me that it came from a Dr. Suess’ book that I used to read to my children called, “Horton Hears a Who.” This little line from this children’s book written in 1954 embodies what we have all known to be true since we were children.


This is what the Bible says, “for YOU formed my inward parts. YOU knit me together in my mother’s womb.   I praise YOU for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.   Wonderful are YOUR works and my soul knows it very well.”

The Declaration of Independence says, “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are LIFE, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”

Your conscience bears witness. No matter what your belief system, inside every person is a core belief that life has value. This is what we know in our hearts and minds to be true. People…Human beings are the pinnacles of Creation.   We are made with intrinsic value and worth.

What do we do? How do we respond?

We weep!

James 4:9 “Let there be tears for what you have done. Let there be sorrow and deep grief. Let there be sadness instead of laughter, and gloom instead of joy.”

We weep for the children who are the victims of these murders.

Our hearts should break. We must not become so numb to the wicked acceptance of killing babies in the womb that we no longer feel it. This dismembered child could have been your child. These are not clumps of cells but people. These are little people full of potential to love, dream, hope and have families of their own. They are future neighbors, friends, and co-workers. They are the future businessmen, farmers, teachers, and mothers, fathers, and leaders that will never be.   They are a picture of potential that has been stolen, destroyed, and extinguished. We weep for the babies.

We weep for the mothers!

We weep for women who are so scared and so fearful that they feel abortion is their only option. Our hearts should break for the young girl who is 15, 16, or 17 who has lost her virtue and has been left alone. We weep that no one is there to support her and help her raise the life that is within her. She has no mother or father with sense enough to tell her to do what is hard and right instead of what is quick and easy.   ‘Quick and easy’ is a lie she will have to live with for the rest of her life. We weep for the woman who has had multiple abortions. We weep for her because she is so lost that she does not value herself or the babies within her body. We weep that she has not been taught that she is valuable, that God loves her and God loves her babies that she is choosing to abort.

We weep for the men.

We weep for the men that view women as objects to meet their sexual needs. We weep that they do not understand that sex is designed to be tied to accountability. We weep that they will not know the joy of being a responsible father to the child that has been aborted. We weep because they do not know that true joy is not found in taking from others but giving of yourself as a protector and provider.

Jesus wept over a city in Luke 13:34 “O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the city that kills the prophets and stones God’s messengers! How often I have wanted to gather your children together as a hen protects her chicks beneath her wings, but you wouldn’t let me.”

I wonder if He is looking over America today He might say, “O America, America the nation that kills its children and mocks God’s messengers. How often I have wanted to gather your children together as a hen protects her chicks beneath her wings, but you wouldn’t let me.”

Those of us who believe in the value of human life must speak up.

Use your voice.

Use your voice in social media. Be loving but truthful in this area.   The truth is that social media is so much more fun when it is birthday cakes, summer vacation selfies, and pictures of what people are eating for dinner. But if you have a voice you need to use it for good.   Talk to people about the value of life.

Use your actual voice. Call your Senators and Representatives and tell them that this must stop!   Beg them to pass legislation that will end the brutal practice of abortion.   Plead with them to not allow any more taxpayer money to go to Planned Parenthood and other abortion industries.

Use your pen. Write letters to you political and church leaders and ask them to stand up for these children.

Use your parenting. Raise your children to value life. Tell your little girls that abortion is never an option. Let them know that even if they make bad decisions you will be there to support them and their child if needed. Teach your sons to be responsible men.   Talk to your children about the value of waiting till marriage to have sex.

Use your prayers.   This is the time that every believer of Jesus Christ should be calling out to Him on behalf of these children.

Share your faith. Your neighbor next door or your coworker down the hall may be contemplating abortion. You need to know them. You need to share with them the hope of Jesus Christ.   It is only in finding hope that you can erase hopelessness.

Use your pocketbooks. Give to agencies that seek to help women that have an unexpected or unwanted pregnancy. These places are called Crisis Pregnancy Centers. Thousands of children every year are saved because of organizations like these.

Proverbs 31:8 could not speak more clearly, “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves; ensure justice for those being crushed.”

In the book “Horton Hears A Who,” these powerful words are given, “Don’t give up! I believe in you all. 
A person’s a person, no matter how small! 
And you very small persons will not have to die 
If you make yourselves heard! So come on, now, and TRY!

God, help us to make these little people heard.