I feel like…
I don’t think it’s fair that…
I don’t feel like God would make someone unhappy…
Christians are saturated by thousands of blogs, articles, and thoughts about what is ok and not ok to do and be in our day. One of the more dangerous false teachings I see creeping into the American Christian world is what I want to call the Theology of Emotion.
Theology simply means the study of God. Our culture is increasingly a generation of Christians that are basing their beliefs about God more heavily on how they feel than what God has revealed about Himself through the Bible.
If you need examples of this just go talk to most young Christians and ask them if they think living together before marriage is wrong. Or ask them if they think homosexuality is wrong. It seems that many who claim Christianity today are more concerned with how they feel about something than what God has said in the Bible about it.
Don’t get me wrong emotions are a great and powerful driver. Emotions are the great catalyst to actions. I love so many passionate movements going on in the Christian community such as the “End It” movement to end sex trafficking. I love the pregnancy care centers that are all over our nation that provide options to mothers who feel like they have no options. I love the push for Christian families to be involved in foster care and adoption. These are great pictures of how God uses our emotional heartstrings to rally us around causes that are close to His heart.
If we do not feel then we do not care and we are never moved to action.
Emotions are great motivators but bad decision makers.
When we allow how we feel about any certain issue to supersede what God has revealed we become our own god and no longer trust Jesus as the authority.
One recent example I read was in an interview with popular Christian author Jen Hatmaker. I know many women in my church that love her books. Most of what she writes is helpful and beneficial. But when I read her recent comments on the homosexual community I was taken back.
Here is what she said, “From a spiritual perspective, since gay marriage is legal in all 50 states, our communities have plenty of gay couples who, just like the rest of us, need marriage support and parenting help and Christian community. They are either going to find those resources in the church or they are not. Not only are these our neighbors and friends, but they are brothers and sisters in Christ. They are adopted into the same family as the rest of us, and the church hasn’t treated the LGBT community like family. We have to do better.”
I find her statements very disturbing. The Christian community has the biblical mandate and responsibility to love and minister to every person, red, yellow, black, white, male, female, straight, gay, confused or other. But what she says takes this to another level. She is taking people who embrace a life and identity that God clearly defined in scripture as a direct rebellion against Him, and associates those who embrace that lifestyle as a fellow believer in Christ.
This is anti-biblical to the core. Jesus is so clear that when we become His followers we sign away all of our personal rights. We become willful slaves of Christ. Here are the words of Jesus, “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me.” (Luke 9:23)
Those selfish acts of rebellion no longer characterize our life. We willingly choose to deny what may seem pleasurable and best to us in order to follow what Jesus says is best.
The Apostle Peter said it this way,
“So then, since Christ suffered physical pain, you must arm yourselves with the same attitude he had, and be ready to suffer, too. For if you have suffered physically for Christ, you have finished with sin. You won’t spend the rest of your lives chasing your own desires, but you will be anxious to do the will of God. You have had enough in the past of the evil things that godless people enjoy—their immorality and lust, their feasting and drunkenness and wild parties, and their terrible worship of idols.” (1 Peter 4:1-3)
Dietrich Bonheoffer said so clearly, “the call to follow Christ is a call to die.”
My goal is not to throw stones at Jen Hatmaker or even those who identify as LGBT. The goal is to expose a larger problem that is a bitter root in the tree of American Theology. It is the idea that we can change our theology to match the spirit and feeling of the day. The beauty of the scripture is that it is unchanging. No matter how we feel about an issue we yield to Christ. We do not seek to make the scripture fit our feelings. This applies to all of us! This is no indictment on any particular sin. It is prerequisite for all of us. I make my kids take off their shoes before they come in the house. We must shed ourselves of all of our sins when we come to Christ.
When we come to Christ we do not have the option of holding on to any sin. Our identity is no longer found in our activity but in our Savior. The sex addict can come to Christ, but he must repent and turn away from his sex addiction. The thief can come to Christ but he is no longer a thief, he now seeks to look like his Savior. He goes from taker to giver. The idol worshipper can come to Christ but he cannot bring his idol with him. He must destroy it. The homosexual can come to Christ but he no longer identifies as a homosexual. My point is not to say that Jesus followers will no longer struggle with their sin but that they will STRUGGLE. They will embrace the internal battle that is going on inside of them. They will not give themselves over to the sins of their past. The Holy Spirit inside of them will no longer allow them to be happy in their sin.
Adrian Rogers once said, “Our feelings are the most shallow part of us. God does not do His deepest work in our most shallow part.”
If you are a follower of Christ I would challenge you to read your bible more than you read the latest Christian book. Remember that if something has been true for 2000 years of the Christian faith then God is not going to suddenly change His mind because the culture now embraces some particular sin. The call of the Christian life is a call of self sacrifice. It is a call to lay our sins down and lay our lives down for others.
Let’s not make a golden image of god in the likeness of the American culture of our day. The world says that we should be happy and we find happiness when we do what makes us feel good. The word of God teaches us that we should seek holiness. When we seek to be holy, only then do we find happiness. Happiness in the Christian life is not the goal but the by-product. It’s not found in sin but often found in service. Happiness can be briefly experienced in the passing pleasures of sin, but that kind of happiness will quickly leave you empty again. Real happiness can only last in the conscious surrender of ourselves to Christ and His calling on our lives. Get your theology from the Bible and not from your heart.